oh shit. i seem to have gotten myself into a bit of a pickle. i am for some reason a target for young, bi-curious, emo girls. they just fall in love and want to text me constantly... im the first person to tell anyone- be honest if your life is being negatively affected by the actions of another. it sucks to hurt feelings, but it sucks even more to be miserable in order to spare someone the truth... argh, but it makes it harder when you know how needy these girls are, especially when they tell me things like, "you are the first girl i've ever been into!" or "you inspire me!"... these are compliments however you slice it, but the bottom line is that i am just not interested. i am not looking for a texting buddy or mediocre conversation. im not looking for someone "young" either... when i say young, i am speaking much more about maturity and life experience than about how many years you have existed on this earth. all factors being equal, age wouldnt matter. we would all be on the same page and things like dating wouldnt be nearly as complicated.
...how somehow cannot know that a text message saying "hey" is sufficient is beyond me. there is nothing wrong with "hey", but when one comes along several times a day while i am driving or in class or not interested, it makes me a whole less likely to respond.
i got your message the first time. there is no need to send the same emoticon and greeting. its not going to make me any more likely to want to engage in conversation with you.
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